The foregoing questions will help you know if a woman is truly a help meet or not. However, answering them effectively would require patience because love is blind at the
initial phase.
Please
note,
if you are already married, you have found favor in the sight of God. It is now
your responsibility to come to the knowledge of the qualities; teach her and
help her understand in love.
Here we go:
1. Does
she complement you? Does she bring balance into your life? Although I
am aware some men don’t allow their wives to assist them. It is virtually
impossible to enjoy the fullness of marriage in the absence of mutual
submission. This will be addressed further next week.
2. Is she a Multiplier? How
does she respond to your dreams and ambitions? Is she is always trying to
belittle you and exalt your weakness? Or does she inspire you to go for your
dreams and infuse energizing words into you?
3. Is she a supporter? Some
ladies only stay around as long as things are rosy for the man. Is she a
present help in time of need/trouble? How does she respond to your needs or the
needs of people around her?
4. Is she a builder? Would
you like to entrust your finances to her without fear she will squander them on
Italian weavon? Do you want your children to be like her? Does she have the
ability or is she willing to join you in building your home, business,
career/ministry,…, vision?
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