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Staying in love (Marriage Therapy)

Dear Husband,
I heard you stopped introducing your wife to your friends. Is it because she is now looking too old and too out-of-date for you? If that is the case, you are abusing a woman.

A woman is like a garden that needs care, attention and affection. Your work is to decorate your wife to the admiration of the world. If you are ashamed of your wife, you are ashamed of yourself.
Let me advise you…
Help your wife regain her self confidence and she will love you more. Take her out for shopping, spend money on her, and pimp her to your taste. She needs a friend and not a boss. Gently encourage her to develop herself.
That is what “Real Gardeners” do to their “Gardens”.


Dear Wife,
Working hard for your family is good, but is that why you are looking so old and outdated?
Let me advise you before you turn yourself into a perpetual house-help. There is a difference between a house-help and a helpmeet.
You can’t engage your husband in intelligent conversation due to knowledge gaps.
Every husband needs an adviser, a companion, a lover and a confidant. If he doesn’t find one with you, some dogs outside will forward their application letters. He wants a helpmeet and not a house-girl; be wise.
The solution is to pursue wisdom and knowledge. Every man wants a wise woman who can build his home with him. Knowledge will make you younger and prettier.
Flee Ignorance, it is very unattractive.
Get books and materials for self development and keep updating yourself with information about the things he needs or likes, such as food, fashion, faith, money, sex, music, sports etc.
Kind Regards,
Family Therapy with Joy Blessing
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